I will focus on what you need to do to meet lovely women.
1. Stay away from bars.
Avoid bars as you would avoid the bubonic plague, which wiped out one-third of Europe’s population in the 1300’s and signifies the kind of despair and desolation that await you in bars!
Trying to meet a woman in a bar is the oldest, dullest, stalest cliche there is, bar none. And it’s an obscene waste of time too because bars are already over-saturated with too many desperate men pursuing too many mediocre women. You’re not desperate and you’re not going to be satisfied with mediocrity, so stay the heck out of bars (until you find the right woman elsewhere, and then it’s fine to take her to a bar.)
2. Go anywhere else where the women are.
In order to meet women, you have to go where the women are actually doing something besides standing around waiting to be picked up. So check out the local mall or shopping center, bookstores, art galleries, concerts, lectures. In September and October, during the harvest, go shopping in a farmer’s market — especially if you’re into the Daisy Duke type. Monitor a female-friendly course at your local community college.
If you have any athletic talent or even the slightest interest in physical fitness, then there are two hotspots that deserve your immediate attention, and I do mean IMMEDIATE: (a) co-ed martial arts classes — where ever-growing numbers of physically capable, self-confident, beautiful women are always to be found rolling around on a mat with girls and guys.
Try a beginner judo class and you’ll see what I mean. And (b) yoga classes — where enlightened, outgoing, physically fit, beautiful women train their toned bodies while seeking spiritual and social enlightenment. Yoga is for both sexes, but females predominate, so in the typical yoga class, you’ll find yourself surrounded by more flexible, nubile women than you can accommodate. In fact, many guys go to yoga class ostensibly to practice yoga, but actually to meet women.
3. Walk right up and introduce yourself.
Whenever and wherever you find a woman you’re attracted to and want to meet, be forthright and direct. Don’t wait for her to notice you. She’ll have to notice you when you walk right up to her and say, politely but confidently, “Hey. I thought I’d come over and say hi. My name’s Michael. What’s yours?” And that’s all there is to it. She wasn’t expecting you to do what you just did, so her dating radar is down, she doesn’t have the time (or the reason) to feel threatened, the spontaneity will captivate her, she’ll open right up, and the sparks will begin to fly . . . just like that.
4. Keep the conversation going, keep it interesting, and let her talk!
It’s best to skip over the basic biographical information and talk first about the place where you’ve just met, how she likes it, what else she likes to do, what she is into. (Hope and pray it’s yoga!) Then let her know what you like, what you’re passionate about. You’re the man, so you should lead the conversation, gently avoid the too-hot-to-handle topics of religion and politics, and by all means let her talk, preferably about herself. If you can sustain an interesting, mutually-satisfying conversation for five minutes — an eternity when there’s no chemistry, an instant when there is — then it’s time to ask for her number.